He screwed up again....
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He screwed up again....
| Wed, 04-26-2006 - 3:51pm |
Remember how I said that my stbx got in trouble with the Marine Corps for his affair with the OW (female marine)...well they were told that if they kept out of trouble for 6 months then they wouldn't lose pay or anything....come to find out they saw each other on Monday night.
My stbx would lose 1.5 month of pay all because he couldn't stay away from this other marine he's having an affair with. The ball is in my court and it's up to me if I turn them in....I don't have a desire to...it just shows me once again my stbx's priorities and explains why he doesn't want me to live near him. He truly wants to write us off and start a new life with the OW. How very sad. His loss though.
Thanks for listening.

Well, that sucks... and worse that it puts you in that position... that's what I love about having filed for Child Support Enforcement--it puts the power over those decisions into someone else's hands...
All that said, it does suck... and I can completely relate to what you're going through... xh recently told me he was engaged and will be getting married in October... the thing that got me when he told me was that he never mentioned wanting Joey to be there... In my case, his fiancee doesn't like children and doesn't "want to do the step mom thing" (um, don't get involved with someone with children then)... so I don't know if he'll be invited or not... but I can't imagine getting remarried without Joey being there...
The roughest part is that they do just want to wipe the slate clean and when there are children involved, it just isn't an option...
Sending lots of hugs your way... think over your options and decide what needs to be done, one way or the other...
Julie
I know it's a sad situation, but I just had to laugh at the rediculousness of it.
That man's brain is nowhere NEAR his skull.
Good luck with your new life.
AMEN! I'm so glad that I'm not the only one who thinks that this is rediculous. Ends up the SgtMaj got wind of the two of them still seeing each other....he said that he doesn't know what will come of it though bc there isn't much proof.
My stbx and the OW don't know yet that their command knows. Last night was the straw that broke the camels back for me...I lost it and got angy, truly angry at him for the first time over all this. Before I was just so sad and lonely and wanted him back.
Thanks for listening.
So... the "mad" kicks in ;-)
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~