He is trying to claim abandonment
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He is trying to claim abandonment
| Sat, 08-11-2007 - 12:54pm |
I have just told my husband that I want I divorce he is against it. I haven't been happy for 3 years - we've tried counseling, I'm just not happy. We have 2 kids, ages 2 & 4. I am scheduled to be my friend's matron of honor in 2 weeks. The wedding is out of town. My husband is threatening that if I go to the wedding he can claim abandonment because I will be gone for 4 days. Am I better off staying home? My friend is supportive and tells me to do whatever I need to do. This is a planned trip that we were going to go together. Our oldest daughter was supposed to be their flower girl but since the husband is no longer going to the wedding he was the kids to stay at home with him. I am willing to go alone but don't want this to come back & bite me. Is he is just playing with my emotions?

It's only abandonment if you don't stick to your plan.... like, if you're gone for longer than you stated you'd be gone, have no definite plans to return, and you can't be reached while you're gone.
He's just full of it.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~