He visited the baby's pre-school

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Registered: 06-11-2004
He visited the baby's pre-school
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Wed, 02-22-2006 - 11:45am

To my surprise my ex visited my son's school yesterday. I found out this morning when I went for a parent - teacher visit. It was written in the order that he should call the school to speak to the therapists' about his progress. The baby receives speech and physical therapy.

I was not expecting him to actually visit the school. For some reason this makes me feel a bit uneasy. It's like he's going behind my back or something. Am I way off base for feeling like this? He claims he cant get him during the week because he's in school but yet he shows up yesterday unnanounced. It's very sneaky to me. Im worried, what if he tries to take him out of school without telling me. Im truly afraid he may try to kidnap him just to hurt me.

How can I protect my son.

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Registered: 06-11-2004
Fri, 02-24-2006 - 9:26am

Thank you very much. It's hard on all of us. I just want to do the right thing. I want my son's father to be a part of his life. I grew up without my dad and he grew up without his. It's funny looking back on it now that was one of the main things we wanted to ensure for our son that he had both parents together and now well......

My ex just has to do the right thing by the baby and that's keeping him safe, warm and healthy. His behavior is totally unacceptable. He would not tolerate it if I were doing it to him. He just needs to grow up and take responsibility for his life being the way it is now.

I pray for him you know. That's all I can do is pray for myself as well.

Thanks again.

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Fri, 02-24-2006 - 1:18pm
I know you're trying so hard to do he right thing. Yes, I understand the whole, "you need to try to get along with the child's father" routine. HOWEVER, he has done PLENTY to make you very nervous. Also, sometimes, you just have to go with that mother's instinct when you know something feels wrong.
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Registered: 06-11-2004
Fri, 02-24-2006 - 3:54pm
Girl who are you telling. The visit is for tomorrow. Round two. I hope not though. I have to see how it goes with the whole car seat/no car seat. He's being such a jerk. I just hopes he has one or else there will be more drama and the baby doesnt need that.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 02-24-2006 - 5:32pm
I hope it all goes well... I'll be thinking about you.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me


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