he want a divorce and i'm devastated.

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Registered: 12-04-2011
he want a divorce and i'm devastated.
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Sun, 12-04-2011 - 8:29pm
My husband of 7 years asked me for a divorce. We have 3 little ones together. He says that he doesn't love me and hasn't for years. I feel lied to and led on. I had no idea he felt this way. I don't know how to even begin coping. He is still leaving here until after the holidays for the kids sake but then last night he wanted to have sex. I just don't understand, I feel heartbroken and so confused. Please help
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Sun, 12-04-2011 - 11:08pm

OH I'm so sorry to hear that.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-20-2011
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 10:41am

I'm sorry, I know this is very hard.

Community Leader
Registered: 01-03-2004
Mon, 12-05-2011 - 8:52pm

Hi,

I' sorry your husband can't seem to makeup his mind. Nor does he seem to understand if you tell someone you don't love them and want out

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-04-2011
Tue, 12-06-2011 - 8:48am

Thank you everyone. I just don't even know how to begin to let go. He really thinks that i'm just supposed to stop caring over night, and i can't just do that. He acts and talks to me like nothing is different. He calls me through out the day to chat or if he has a question about his online classes. He cracks jokes with me expecting me to laugh. He just acts like none of this is affecting him at all, and yet i'm barely keeping it together as it is.

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-02-2008
Tue, 12-06-2011 - 10:45am

This sounds very confusing and very cruel on your husband;s part.

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Registered: 01-13-2010
Tue, 12-06-2011 - 4:02pm

I am SO sorry!