He wants me back

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Registered: 08-09-2006
He wants me back
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Tue, 11-07-2006 - 12:00pm
For those of you that don't remember my story, a quick recap - after 12 years of marriage and many accusations of cheating on him, I left my husband. I started the process. Throughout it all he has acted like I am the evilist of persons, and maybe even a little insane. He seemed perfectly wiling to just let me go and feel sorry for himself. Now, how many months later, and now that I've hired a lawyer and will be filing in a week or so, he wants me back. He called me the other night to tell me that he wants to fight for me, that he doesn't want to give up. He is also eamiling me about this. I've told him it's no use, that I'm done. I hate having to do this to him again, but for once he is determined, and so it forces me to keep hurting him, keep shutting him down. I hate this! Perhaps if he had said these things sooner, I might have given in and tried, but now, I can't. I've realized that I haven't missed him or our life together. I just don't know how I'll find the strength to keep this up.
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Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 11-12-2006 - 12:17am

Too little, too late.


It's hard to believe anything that they have to say to redeem themselves once we've taken "that step" that is a big red finality flag.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 08-09-2006
Sun, 11-12-2006 - 2:10pm
Thank you Karen. What he also doesn't realize is that I know what he has been up to since I left. I think I posted the situation with finding out about his putting a profile up on Yahoo Personals. Well, I know he has met a couple of people from that, and I also know he's been "messing" around with 20 something graduates from AIT. (The training you go to right after basic training in the army - he is a drill sergeant) So, I'm sorry if I don't put much stock into his wanting me back. Why, because he saw me and I looked good, and happy? Please, moving on!