He won't give up!!!

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Registered: 11-29-2006
He won't give up!!!
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Tue, 02-27-2007 - 1:39pm

My hopefully STBX won't give up on making it work. I have clearly told him, I don't love him and there is nothing he can do to make me happy and work it out. I feel like I am being forced to stay in an unhappy marriage. After six years of telling him weekly I was not happy and why, now all of the sudden he wants to make it right. He used to tell me, "we're fine, I am happy!"

I told him today, if he doesn't move out, I will - hope that cures him. Anyone else going through this - I feel awful. He even pulled Dr. Laura into telling me that she would say I was wrong.....

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Tue, 02-27-2007 - 1:47pm
Sweet, I am in your husbands postion. I can tell you he isn't going to give up easy. It has been two years since he left and I still remind him that I love him and want him to come home. Sorry to bring you bad news. The heart wants what the heart wants. I from my position do not understand why you are willing to break your wedding vows without this one last try now that he is willing to try. The greiveing process takes time, but how much time is dependant on the person. Good Luck finding in life what you want.
Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda