He won't let me go!

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Registered: 10-09-2003
He won't let me go!
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Mon, 09-24-2007 - 9:47pm

He did it again.

Katy

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Registered: 09-24-2007
Mon, 09-24-2007 - 10:14pm
You don't deserve a man who only wants you when it's convenient for him. You deserve someone who is devoted to you ALL THE TIME. If you keep returning for this abuse, he'll keep giving it! You can do better - even if you are on your own, at least you'll have inner peace.
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Registered: 05-12-2007
Mon, 09-24-2007 - 10:32pm

You said it... you do keep allowing it...


How about this... because I've been in a place where I didn't want it and wxanted to fight for it and then over time I realized I didn't want to be treated the way he was treating me... as I was going through it all though I said that something had to give... I couldn't keep on the way I was going... so I set a deadline... if x and y didn't happen by Date Z, then I would take action...


what this did for me was it took the pressure off, so I could feel whatever and get a grip on it... but I also knew the clock was ticking and if it didn't happen I would get an atty and file... turns out I got fed up with everything well before my deadline, so I took action sooner than originally planned...


But look at the calendar and pick a date... and if he doesn't make a decision by then, YOU make the decision for both of you... take the power back from him... it isn't just about him and if you really want this then do what you need to do to get the resolution you want...


GL!


Julie


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Registered: 10-09-2003
Mon, 09-24-2007 - 10:48pm
I was thinking that I would set my own deadline, too.

Katy