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| Wed, 06-06-2007 - 2:51pm |
I told my husband two days ago that I would be moving out. We have serious financial problems. He has had a history of periods of unemployment, periodically he cashes his paycheck and spends all of it, and on occasion he takes checks from my purse and cashes them to use for his own purposes. He does not have his own checking account. We tried that and it failed miserably (overdrawn). Therefore, all of the responsibility for paying bills falls to me. I decided I had enough and signed a six month lease on an apartment. I figured if I am out of the picture - he would have to pay his bills. His reaction is that if I am not around, he is "going to say the hell with it". He made comments about filing paperwork, etc. Basically, I feel like if I do this I will definitely be getting a divorce. He is very concerned about when he would see me. I told him on his days off (every fourth day). That didn't seem to satifsy him. He said "If I wanted to date, I would have never got married." I feel disappointed, because I thought he would want to put some effort into the whole situation. Am I unrealistic to expect him to try?
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| Wed, 06-06-2007 - 4:26pm |
NO WAY!!!!! i am there myself and when all the bills become YOUR problem and he has no concept of life, its time to go. you are better off on your own than you are being a mother to him! my soon to be x could care less about being a REAL man and taking care of his family. Everything has always been my problem. money, house, my 3 yr old its going to be hard for you and myself to move on but we need to let go dont you think??
