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Registered: 04-25-2005
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Mon, 04-25-2005 - 12:21pm

"I agree, I don't feel so bad about my situation when I don't involve myself with her . ( thinking talking or otherwise )" -Angelena butterfly71676 from the post "An excerpt from a great book......"

In response to Angelena's post "hehehehehehe":

So WHY, Angelena, would you continue to involve yourself with her? WHY would you even bring her up at all let alone post her blog? Are you a masochist?

OW bashing is not progress. Once you can consistently create posts that do NOT include her AT ALL, THAT would be progress and I would congratulate you.

Do you guys enjoy cutting other people down? Does it make you feel better about yourself? I thought this board was supposed to inspire positive thoughts and changes. A post like "hehehe" only encourages vindictiveness and negativity.

Keep one thing in mind: you only hear HALF of the story.

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Registered: 06-14-2004
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 12:52pm

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Well, by posting OW's blog Angelena would be giving us an unbiased view into the other side of the story, since the blog is presumably about OW's life in her own words.

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 1:50pm

Well, I didn't say anything about OW's blog and yes I was offering an opportunity to give the "other half's" life in her own words.


I think it is important to know that regardless of what OW has done or said to me I have never posted a harsh insult or rambeling about her on this board.


I get support from this board. I have asked why she cannot leave me alone and that was about it. I realize this is a public board and I know who can see these things. In her findings about me ( her research in my sites etc ) she knows I am a CL on these boards. I would never post something mean in a place she can see it for that reason and the reason it makes me no better than her.


I think THAT is important.


Also note that I have not been on her blog in months. I posted it so people could see her life in her own words. I was also proving my own neutrality and how it does not make me feel better to "bash" her.


This is a place for support.... Thanks for your comments though!


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Registered: 12-29-2004
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 2:21pm

By reading your message, I take it you haven't been here long. If you had, you'd know that Angelina is one of the nicest, most supportive people alive! Never once has she "bashed" anyone, not even the OW! She and her X have 2 beautiful children together and the OW is in the picture and in her life, regardless. So she has to DEAL with her. So be it...

The way I see it, she only gave us a look at the OW and her life. Afterall, it is on the internet which makes it available for the whole world to see!

You have a right to your opinion and this is a support board. Please don't think it is anything other than that.

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 2:29pm

Thank you for all the nice things you said :) I am happy that I am thought of that way :) It's what I live for :)


Hugs to you!


Angelena

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Registered: 04-25-2005
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 6:17pm

You say that we only know one side of the story? Well I know both sides.
OW knew what OW was buying into when this all began. I know that OW always tries to make everything about OW, when in all actuality it's supposed to be about the kids. If OW would just keep out of things that involve them parenting together, things would go so much smoother. For the kids, parents, and for OW. I am not bashing OW. Just trying to get OW to open OW's eyes.

I guess what I am saying is you get what you pay for.

That's just my opinion.....

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Registered: 03-06-2005
Mon, 04-25-2005 - 6:28pm

I agree.......!


Welcome and THANK YOU for your honest opinion!


Hugs,


Angelena