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Registered: 06-26-2008
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Thu, 06-26-2008 - 11:23am

don't know what to do calling my spouse over and over every day and can't leave him alone so scared to be without him


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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: kaci2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 4:01pm
Get a grip & find someone else to call, like a friend, your relatives, etc.
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Registered: 06-26-2008
In reply to: kaci2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 4:24pm
Thank you for the advice. I do try to do other things but it is just an obsessive problem and I can't stand it. I feel like I am addicted to this man. I don't feel better after I call usually he is ugly to me and I feel worse. Or he locks me out of his house and I stand on the porch crying begging him to let me in and he just ignores me. The more he rejects me the more I hang on it is a very sick relationship and I don't know where to go to get help. I have been to counselors hypnotist you name it. I am fine as long as he is happy with me but the minute he isn't, and he isn't alot, I fall apart. My ability to function at home and at work is all wrapped up in what he thinks about me and it changes a lot. I am desperate and don't know what to do. I literally have to force myself not to call one minute at a time. Even if my friends are babysitting me I sneak around and call anyway. I don't know how to get help
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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: kaci2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 4:45pm
Are you still going to counselling?
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Registered: 06-26-2008
In reply to: kaci2008
Thu, 06-26-2008 - 4:51pm
No I am not going to the counselor anymore i probably need to find a new one. i started a journal for me last night of how I am feeling. I hope to see progress over time. I will go look at the book store and see what I can find thank you