Help! Cried first time(mixed emotions)
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| Tue, 08-30-2005 - 12:17pm |
We ended this marriage so weird (but, our whole short marriage was weird) one minute were antique shopping and making love, trying to work on this marriage and talking and the next we don't talk for a few days and i'm not back living in his house by a certain date. So he tells me to go to his attorneys office and sign the divorce papers...WHAT!!!! Now were done...When he doesn't get his way, everyone pays.
My emotions are running crazy, very bad day today...Would it be good to call and leave a msg while he is at work or email him and ask him if he is happy with what he has done and if he is proud of what he has done..I know he is also sad from the last time I talked with him..3 weeks ago...
Then there is another part of me that wants to RIP his head off for all the hell he put my boys and myself through...Every one has been so much help on these boards and I thank you...Victoria

Emotions suck, don't let them drag you down. I have had few bad days in the last 4wks, I've had some good times so far too. Think about the bad things, that's what keeps me going strong out weigh the good with the bad. That may not help a whole lot, but it does help. I'm always thinking of the crap he put me through the tears I've cried, the time I waisted. Don't be blue, hold that head up high, for you and your kids!!
Stacy
A relationship isn't all about what he wants on his terms......... and for that, I'd opt to dream about ripping his head off.... how dare he!
I think that, ultimately, if you sign those papers...... he'll be the one in the end to pay.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Your right! He has always made hasty decisions and then has told me that he has regretted it. He has made a ton of bad ones...
Gave his 3 kids up for adoption
taking my dog (never to be seen again)
taking my personal things and my boys things
selling my boys personal property
The list goes on and on and on~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Why am I even wasting my energy thinking about him.....Because I fell in LOVE with him...but I don't LIKE him...
I would just like to have the last word and just let him hang on that...
He will not view it as you getting the "last word."
Sanguine~You are sooo right
With me NOT contacting him...I'm sure he has been wondering what the H*ll I 've been up to and doing..The not knowing drives anyone nuts..do you agree or not?
I'm sure with him telling me to REFRAIN MYSELF from calling him...he was probably in the back of his mind hoping I would. I'm sure he wanted me to plead to continue to see him. Thats the kind of games he plays..
At one point he wanted to date me and stay committed to me when the divorce was final and then when we talked about 4 wks ago he didn't want that..
Thanks for keeping me on my toes...Victoria
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~