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| Fri, 12-21-2007 - 11:20am |
My H & I have been together for 15 years ( since the 9th grade ) We have been married for 8 years & have 3 children ages 2 -11. We have had our ups & downs over the years like most people do but last January my husband admitted that he loves me but is not "in love" with me anymore. This has devastated me to say the least, I had always thought I was in love with him but I don't feel like I am anymore either. Basically my H feels that I don't love him anymore & says I'm not affectionate enough towards him & I am in love with our "situation" as he calls it ( house, security, family,etc..) & not him. My H's idea of affection is sex only, when he comes through the door at night he will make perverted gestures & gets mad at me because I don't like

Hi there... sounds like he's not doing anything consistently to show you that he loves you and truly wants to work this out.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~