HELP ME

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Registered: 06-16-2013
HELP ME
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Sun, 06-16-2013 - 4:40pm

my husband and I have been married 5 years in those five years it has been hell he has cheated, had meth addiction, abused me my kids, the list goes on.he has been a very good provider he works on the pipeline so he is never home and when he is home he is mad, hateful its like he dosent want to be here now i have filed for a divorce he said this is what i want and he dosesnt want it, but it is to late he says is he playing mind games what the hell is going on i dont know what to do and i am scared. how can i still want to be with him after so much? I am scared i will never be the same again, I am scared of being alone, I am scared for my children. I have no education, i have raised my kids and been a house wife most of my life. when i met him i had my house, a farm that made a living for me and now i have nothing, everything is in his name nothing is in mine, my credit is ruined. I dont know what to do anymore. If it wernt for my children i would end all of this mess. i always fall in love with the ones that cant love back

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Registered: 11-28-1999
In reply to: shellie480
Sun, 06-16-2013 - 8:58pm

I hope that you have retained a really good lawyer.  First of all, why are you scared to be alone?  If he's gone most of the time, aren't you alone a lot already?  And you already said that it's better off when he's not around since when he does come home, he's abusive, so it would be a big relief if you don't have to worry about those bad times.

If you already owned a house & farm before you got married, how did those assets get out of your name and into his name?

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Registered: 05-20-2009
In reply to: shellie480
Sat, 06-29-2013 - 5:12pm

Great, he's a good provider!  And other than that.......he's somehow managed to get you to sign over everything to him, he's always mad, he abuses your  children and you've filed for divorce.  At least that's the right thing for you and your children.  Now you need a GOOD lawyer to make things right for you.......as far as your property is concerned.   Unless he gave you a lot of money for it, then hopefully, it will be fixable.  And if you'll need money, then you'll have to go out and find a job, even if it's at McDonalds.......something to bring money in.  I hope you get child support from the children's father.  A minimum wage job plus that should give you enough to live on, and if you have a good lawyer, then you won't have to pay him, your soon to be ex will be charged, not you.

You can't just hire a cheap lawyer, you need a good one that can help you with everything, not just a divorce!!!!

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Registered: 03-15-2014
In reply to: Beatrixharvey
Sun, 03-16-2014 - 12:29am

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