HELP! What do I do?

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-05-2007
HELP! What do I do?
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Wed, 04-30-2008 - 11:12am
Hi there... I'm new to the site and really need some advice. I feel like such a horrid person over all these feelings and just need some perspective.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-16-2008
Wed, 04-30-2008 - 4:03pm
You need to stop relying on a man to take care of you and learn how to stand on your own two feet. Whether you want to admit it or not, your husband is abusive to you. You are way too young to waste any more time and energy in this destructive relationship. Why do you think this guy deserves you?
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-22-2006
Thu, 05-01-2008 - 1:55am
Get out. You have your whole life ahead of you. You have no reason to stay. You have plenty not to. Get an education. Get a job. Suck it up and move back in with mom if you have to. A few years now is better than a lifetime of grief! If you have a baby with this man you will have him in your life forever. You need to become independent and stop letting him take care of you. He will do nothing but control you for the rest of your life. As far as the other guy goes, get to know him. Don't get pregnant. Take care of you first. Get yourself in a position where you can take care of yourself and then think about someone to share your life with. You have some growing up to do but that ok. You're young. Take advantage of it and get a life!
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-28-1999
Thu, 05-01-2008 - 10:56am

Well obviously you both were too immature to get married at 16.