here we go again
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here we go again
| Mon, 06-30-2008 - 9:03am |
I can not believe that after 7 months I am in the same place or worse than before-my STBX and I had met 2 weeks ago and hammered out an agreement that was give and take on both sides but since then he talked to his lawyer and says arbitration is no longer in the works since it is too costly and "judges are free???" so he has more room to negotiate and no longer agrees to the terms we had come to. I am forcing myself out of bed every morning and just stuck in limbo that seems to work so well for him. I don't even know where to start. STBX says he wants to take it out of lawyers' hands but doesn't as long as it seems to be working for him. I'm overwhelmed-overfrustrated and just really discouraged that a lawyer would advise him to take this to court because it is cheaper than arbitration would be. I am barely making it month to month while STBX lives off his mother-how can it be this important to get me out of his life that we end up spending money we do not have for him to ensure I end up with nothing. It is not worth any of this pain to me.

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Iladyja
Can't tell you how much it means to hear support when I feel I just can't vent to anyone-everyone is tired of hearing about it-especially me! I've tried so hard to keep a sense of humor but when I keep getting slapped down with how inadequate I was I find myself wallowing in that self pity that I don't deserve. This was all my husband's idea for a divorce-totally out of the blue-yet every aspect becomes how badly he is being treated and how demeaning I am to him. How demeaning does he think it
Well maybe if you took an interest in his toys he would be more likely to negotiate?
Well it's 9:30 so I guess I can assume my lawyer will not be getting back to me today. Having all weekend to worry and then get no response today either has made for several really long days. I do know that my STBX knows exactly what buttons to push with me-the day we met last week
How can they freeze your joint account and leave you with anything?
STBX is to refinance and buy me out.
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