HE'S GONE!!!!

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Registered: 05-02-2007
HE'S GONE!!!!
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Wed, 05-30-2007 - 8:45am

Well, he went to his mother's last night. He sent me this pathetic pity party email how he's going to be "slumming" for a week or so until his apartment is ready. Oh, boo hoo. So I had one peaceful night last night but will have to deal with him coming and going to get his stuff out over the next week or so. Ugh.

I have to say though, I didn't shed one tear this time. The last time he left, I was a basket case! I'm not saying I won't have my moments anymore, but I was proud of myself to not cry in front on him like I always have....I'm hoping it's another step closer to peace.

Hugs to all!
Jennifer

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Registered: 03-27-2007
Wed, 05-30-2007 - 9:39am

Hi Jennifer, I don't post very often but I wanted to say good for you! It was hard for me when my STBX moved out but now that he's gone I'm so much more relaxed and happy. He had the nerve to tell me the other day that he is trying to get rid of all the stresses in his life and he didn't need me coming down on him...whatever! I have finally been able to stop crying in front of him too - which makes me feel so much stronger. It sounds like you are getting a lot stronger too...you should be very proud of yourself. I'm definitely in the "angry" stage and getting more to the acceptance stage. There is a light at the end of this freakin' tunnel and I believe we will all get there! Yay!

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 06-01-2007 - 10:15am

When I wasn't *that* emotional about it any more... that's when I knew, without a doubt, that I was doing the right thing.


Hang in there!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~