He's plumb crazy
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He's plumb crazy
| Thu, 06-08-2006 - 4:38pm |
My mom watches my son during the day, during the week. Minus the 5 hours a day (3 days a week) that he's in child-care. Oh, and ex picks him up from school one day a week, and usualy has him a full-other day as well.
My mom also babysits for another little girl who will be 1 in a month. She watches this little girl at the little girls house. She's been doing this since October or so. Well this family is moving out of town at the end of the summer, and the recommended my Mom to some of their friends with an infant son. My mom went and talked to them the other day, and is probably going to take the job.
I told this to ex, trying to keep communication open, and not get accused of not telling him things and since we have joint-legal, I just thought it the polite thing to do.
he promptly told me great, but you'll have to find a new babysitter for C -- umm, excuse me? I told him I didn't think so, and he said "well you'll have to deal with the ramifications of him growing up confused"...
Can someone tell me what might potentiall be confising about this situation? Is there anything? If there is, I would like to know, so I can see if I can work around it, but my inkling is that there is nothing confusing about it.
My mom also babysits for another little girl who will be 1 in a month. She watches this little girl at the little girls house. She's been doing this since October or so. Well this family is moving out of town at the end of the summer, and the recommended my Mom to some of their friends with an infant son. My mom went and talked to them the other day, and is probably going to take the job.
I told this to ex, trying to keep communication open, and not get accused of not telling him things and since we have joint-legal, I just thought it the polite thing to do.
he promptly told me great, but you'll have to find a new babysitter for C -- umm, excuse me? I told him I didn't think so, and he said "well you'll have to deal with the ramifications of him growing up confused"...
Can someone tell me what might potentiall be confising about this situation? Is there anything? If there is, I would like to know, so I can see if I can work around it, but my inkling is that there is nothing confusing about it.

LOL! There is nothing confusing about the situation. Your son will benefit from having a close relationship with his grandmother while learning about babies. I think it will be a wonderful experience for all of them.
Melanie
Not confusing at all.... for instance, how does this compare to.... kindergarten... then moving on the first grade... then second grade..... etc.... having new classmates each year... AND teachers???
The ramifications will be an Earthly, well rounded, diverse child ~perfect!!!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~