he's ready to date already?!!
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he's ready to date already?!!
| Sat, 07-30-2005 - 9:52am |
my xh and i were married four years. i left him about 6 weeks ago due to his neglect and complete coldness since day 1 of our marriage. when i told him i was leaving he cried for days. for a man with no show of emotion, that was a huge deal. and for a couple of weeks after i left, up until the day before the divorce hearing, he pleaded for me to just forgive him and go back. but i didn't. our divorce was finalized 4 weeks ago. yesterday i found out that he had joined an online dating service, declaring himself as "single-never married" and asking girls for a date ASAP!!! i mean did it really take him only 4 weeks to recover and get out there again?! i wasn't feeling jealousy but rather shock and hurt that it took him just a few weeks to get over me and everything we shared (including a whole life together)!!!!
what's up with that?
what's up with that?

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i would like to thank each and every one of you for taking the time out to respond to my agony. it was just wonderful having new support every day. thank you.
i think what you all said about him not being able to be alone makes a lot of sense. i think in a way that makes us women lucky to be able to take our time, fix what we've gone through and then start fresh with a clean slate so to speak. my xh put me through a lot, from neglect to cheating, but i left. realizing that i took that initiative makes me feel strong and in control already. it's only a matter of time, but until then, i will take my time.
i wish you all love...
thanks again. i love this site. it's been there for me through everything.
girl power:)
-maya
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