He's so crazy
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He's so crazy
| Sun, 02-04-2007 - 6:23pm |
So not only is the STBX keeping my mail, he now admits that he hacked into my computer. He found some email that I exchanged with someone while we were separated but stil living in the same house. Granted, I had a rather emotional attachment so someone for a few weeks, but I ended it before it went anywhere. Now he's using this as a reason for the marriage ending- it's really not.
The worst part is that he ended with "I still love you" and "why couldn't we work it out?" I am afraid. I feel like this isn't rational behaviour. I feel like a prisoner still.

Edited 2/5/2007 12:51 am ET by sdlostorfound
Opening mail that isn't yours is a federal offense.
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Sending you hugs. I don't know what to say. I can understand your worries. I will pray that he is just emotional and doesn't actually take action. Don't know what it would take to get a protective order.
Keep us apprised!
M
Thanks for all of the replies. Today I am just angry at myself for totally underestimating him and being so naive. Last week I did arrange to have my mail forwarded. Today I also called all of the utilities to have my name taken off of them.
I guess I'm waking up a bit. I've been really stupid. I am so disgusted that he is still trying to control me and I let him. I can't believe that he invaded my privacy in such a way and sees nothing wrong with having done so. Furthermore, he's threatening to tell my parents that I had an "affair" and have them cut me off financially. Seeing as he hasn't given one cent toward their care, Iwonder who he thinks will be feeding the kids if he "turns my parents against me" as he is threatening.
He actually had the nerve to call today and ask if he could come over on his lunch break to see the kids. We just happen to be staying home because we all have colds and he is working 2 blocks away. I told him that he had a lot of nerve wanting to come to my house after what he has done. What an a$$.
But, of course he's only doing these things to me because he loves me. I could vomit.