HE'S SUCH A JERK!!!!!
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| Tue, 07-01-2008 - 1:01pm |
So STBX comes up to my job and says he wants the car (Yes, we only have one and share it) so that he can take our son to the movies....great. Then he proceedes to get angry with me. I have no idea why. I ask him what is wrong. He said "I'm not going to have this discussion here." That's also fine since I'm at work. What I don't understand is why he is so freaking angry. I haven't even been home to pi$$ him off. (I go to work before he's even up). I did, however ask him if he could go by David's Bridal and pay for my bride's maid dress since it is right by the movie theater. His reply is "That's your business.", but then gets mad because he wants to pull my rent AND his rent out of the bank, but my rent isn't due yet and I just told him to leave mine in the bank until it is due. "We don't need to make 2 trips to the bank....that's just waisting gas." Ok, but driving across town to the movies and then again to pay for my dress isn't waisting gas? The bank is only like 5 blocks from our house.
Thursday can't get here fast enough....that's when I move out. I don't know why he is so angry with me. HE wants this divorce. If he feels guilty about it, that's not my problem. He needs to take his angry a$$ aggression out on someone else besides me and our son. I can't believe that I was so depressed that he's leaving. I just wish we didn't have a child...not that I don't LOVE my son, it's just now I have to see this jerk for the rest of my life. I can't just get divorced and never have to see him ever again.
AAAAAAAAAAAUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sorry, but I REALLY needed to vent.

I try not to show my emotion to him, but he can read me like a book. Even when I try to show that nothing's wrong, he still knows. That's why I can't wait to move out. He always hounds me with "What's wrong?" or "What's on your mind?" I never want to tell him because he's soooooooooo defensive. (And he wonders why I never tell him anything) When I do try to tell him how I feel, his response is "Oh, brother!" or "I didn't make you feel anything". Which, to me, just proves that he doesn't give a crap how I feel.....he just wants to fight.
I just keep in mind that this long weekend, my sister is "kidnapping" me and my son and we are going to the lake with her family. Her birthday is on the 4th too, so I bet I will have a blast. I just wish that the rest of my family (mainly mom) lived closer since my STBX is pretty much like her first husband, so she totally gets what I'm going through.
I'm so glad that this message board exists since the only friends I have are his friends and go singing like a canary to him if I tell them anything. Plus they all are "happily" married and have NO clue how this feels.
So, thank you guys for all your kind words and encouragement....it really means the world to me to know that I have somewhere to go to vent my frustrations, anger, sadness, loneliness etc.. and get great advice. You guys are the best. Hugs to everyone.
Vent away here---it's a safe haven for venting and words never get back!!
My first question is ---do you trust him with a joint account?