Hi Everyone, a little update

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Registered: 01-13-2004
Hi Everyone, a little update
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Thu, 09-28-2006 - 12:18pm

Just a little update. Visited my attorney earlier this week, we're still hashing out the final proposal. He's trying to screw me on alimony, so I'm fighting back, LOL!

I have totally given up talking to him, seeing him, etc. Not to try to make amends of course, but to give myself some inner peace. I couldn't/can't handle the stress of dealing with him in any way, shape or form, so I've been avoiding him like the plague! And it really helps! He's sent me 3 emails in the last 3 days asking me if I was okay because I've been so quiet. As if he cares now, right. He's got all this time on his hands since his OW is getting married to someone else. I spent last weekend away with family and friends in Dover, DE for the Nascar races. Had a great time and I WAS TOTALLY RELAXED AND STRESS FREE! Amazing how stress free my life is now that he is not with me anymore. I think that's the best part.

Just wanted to give you an update. Trying to keep busy still but enjoying my alone time. Kids are doing great and likewise, I HAVE EVERYTHING UNDER CONTROL!

Hugs to all, hope you are also doing well!
Jenn in CT

Jennifer

Proud Mom of Travis (15) and Mandi (10)

and our pets, Sully the Dog and Till

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Thu, 09-28-2006 - 12:31pm

That's great, Jenn.


I've always wanted to go to a Nascar/Nextel race... perhaps... one day :-)

Karen ~ wildlucky4me

Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Sat, 09-30-2006 - 8:42am
It really does sound like you have everything under control....I'm happy for you! You're handling things so well. You should be proud of your progress. Is there a final date set yet?