Hmmm...second thoughts finally?

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Registered: 05-06-2003
Hmmm...second thoughts finally?
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Sat, 01-27-2007 - 9:41am

Well ex and I have been seperated for a bit over 7 months now.

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Sat, 01-27-2007 - 10:17am
Lisa, I know about wanting them to come home. I dream about it all the time. I too worry that he will wait until I am finally settled into my new life. Go with your gut on this. Remember why you are divorced in the first place. Can you live with the past and still make a future? If he is coming around you'll figure out the answer. Just don't let him rush you. I wish you the best. Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda 

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Registered: 03-28-2003
Sun, 01-28-2007 - 12:02pm

It is possible that seeing you with someone new and you being happy about it is what stirred everything up. I would tell him that he has to be on his own for awhile if he dumps the OW and see if this is truely what he wants. Meanwhile go on with your life too and make sure that your ex is who YOU want to be with.

Good luck.