Hi there! What are your plans with the separation? Is this just a trial separation to see if you can work things out, or is this a separation before divorce? Either way, if your safety is not an issue, I would be direct and compassionate about asking for a separation. Also, attending a few counseling session with our without your H may prove to be helpful also. Feel free to share more information with us!
Hey there.... I think that if you are miserable.... then he's probably not in marital bliss either.
Why not just ask him how he's feeling about things.... you've having a nonconfrontational chat.... "How are you feeling about us lately?"
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~