How can everyone move and forget me
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How can everyone move and forget me
| Thu, 06-21-2007 - 11:26pm |
My husband and I took a "break" to take a step back and then I found out that three days later he met someone and is now serious with. I am crushed about that even thought I know it is over with us and I am better for that b/c he couldn't ever be faithful... but its like everyone is able already accepted this women and its been three weeks. We were together for 9 years. He has a daugther and she is okay about this women. I feel so alone and don't know how everyone can except this other women like I am not here. I wish I could just move away and not have to deal with it. Soon he will want my 3 and 2 year old to meet her, what happens if they do like her... I don't want them to hate her but I don't want them to like her more.... Why did I have to marry a man that doesn't care? I just don't know how I will ever get over this....

I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm kinda new to this whole thing, but I think it's easy to feel left behind/forgotten even if there isn't another woman. The fact that there is just hurts even more, but like you said, you're better off without him because you know he can't be faithful. I have to extend to you the hope that I cling to, that one day you'll meet someone who will NOT do anything like that to you, someone who wants to be with you and won't "forget" you. Right now you really have to take care of you and your kids. Try to do things that make you feel good right now, like hanging out with some of your friends or family; doing things to get your life back on track. I have to believe that it will get easier and eventually the hurt won't sting so badly.
As for this woman meeting your children ... there isn't much that you can do about it if that happens. The best thing you can do is hold your head up high and face them all with a brave face, even if it's nothing more than fantastic acting. Be the better woman about all of it and you'll at least be able to keep your dignity intact.