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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-21-2004
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Sat, 11-03-2012 - 9:43am

I have it posted in recognizing and dealing with domestic violence too.

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 07-29-2002

Im sorry to hear that your kids are having to go through all of that trauma.  I hope you are able to rectify the situation soon.

Are your kids in any sort of therapy/counseling?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 01-21-2004

Absolutely. I got them into counseling the same week my son told what was happening. I'm at a loss. He sat and smirked at my new love when I was in talking to the court clinician, like he knew he was going to "win". For me it's not about winning, it's about the safety of my children.  It's like everything I've instilled in my children since they were very little has been erased. They are now 6 and 11, and I'm starting all over again, like they are 2. We share, we don't hit, we don't yell at each other or throw things, we use our words.

 

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Registered: 01-21-2004
They will be manipulated today and tomorrow, this is what he does. I know it all too well. :-(