How to create distance when kids are inv
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| Fri, 12-28-2007 - 7:51pm |
How do I create distance when children are involved?
I cant take it anymore! He is cold, cruel and heartless. He is horrible to me on the phone most of the time (unless he think he is getting his way) and just about the same in person. I cant take it anymore. How can he hurt me as much as he has and be so cold and heartless. I could never bear to hurt another person as much as he hurt me. I could not live with myself. He destroyed our family, left without a word, at night and tried to take his 2 bio kids and left the 2 step kids *he has raised* behind. He harasses me whenever he hears something that the kids said that he feels he can use against me. (like my boys riding my sisters snowmobile without helmets. its a very old machine, only goes like 15 MPH and her boyfriend was out there all the time)
I never want to see him or talk to him again. I never want to hear his voice or be in the same room as him again. I want him to go away and leave us alone to move on and live a happy life without him trying to drag us down too.
How the HECK do I get past the pain right now? I am exhausted and cant sleep, never want to eat, never want to be alone, nights are hardest...
I just dont know....
It sounds like I need some distance from him, but HOW THE HECK can I get that?
Liz

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