How to deal with people...

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Registered: 03-28-2003
How to deal with people...
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Tue, 01-23-2007 - 5:48pm

How do you deal with people who think that you should try harder to make your marriage work? Did it ever sway you from the divorce because it was just easier to live unhappy then to deal with all the stress?

Dh and I don't really fight. It is more that we don't care enough to fight about things. We have been like roomates for years. He admitted to me that he doesn't see me as a women, he sees me as a mom therefore the reason he hasn't wanted to have intercourse with me for 10 years.

I recently ended up having an emotional affair with a friend. I still talk to C but we are just friends talking about life. He isn't ready for another relationship and neither am I. Dh has made it clear that if I continue to talk to C that we are through.

I don't think I am in love with DH or even C for that matter. We have done 3 sessions of marriage counseling and we are still processing everything. We have 2 children and I am concerned about how this will affect them and I need to get a job before we separate.

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Fri, 01-26-2007 - 11:23am

Don't you just loathe it when people, who don't live your life, offer advice? :-)


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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