how do i go back home?
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| Fri, 05-09-2008 - 9:29am |
I found early january that my husband had been cheating on me for over a year. Have a 19 month old. told him to move out of the home. He did but kept coming back all the time. There was abuse as well and I got scared and moved out of the house. He has been in the house since then. Due to certain reasons we cannot file for a divorce yet. But I really think it is unfair that he gets to live in the house and I and the kid in a small apartment. I tried going back, but he does not let me. We have the mortgage in both our names and he threatens to get off the mortgage..can he do that? I work and am quite capable of paying the mortgage, but the bank wont give me such a big loan bcos of the whole housing mess. He has called his parents to live with them and they all are occupying my house and using my stuff. What can I do? What are my options? Please advise.

You need to consult an atty right away to determine your rights.
Hi there ashi,
Musiclover is right about going to an attorney.
In addition, I'd ask the local police or sheriff what to do, including all aspect about the abuse. (In the future, call the police immediately regarding abuse, and call them every single time.)
He cannot cut you off of a mortgage without you explicitly releasing your dower rights - so he would have to both refinance, and retitle.
Hi ashi08,
definately go see an attorney!!!!!!!.
My STBX kicked me out of the house, and changed the locks.