How do I tell him I am done?
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How do I tell him I am done?
| Wed, 07-02-2008 - 7:01pm |
We have been married (tomorrow) for 13 yrs, have 2 kids, 9 and 11. I am not willing to 'try' anymore. I am just done. He isn't a bad person, but does have some anger issues. The last discussion we had about separating/divorce was because he found a piece of paper I had written a name of book I was going to read about divorce..didn't go over well..he FLIPPED out, broke a bunch of things, then laid on his garage floor and cried.

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He sounds like he will get very angry with you.
It will not be easy but let me offer you a few tips...
* Start with telling him the marriage is in trouble.
* He needs Therapy. If he says No, then you are moving out with the kids (do not leave the state)
* Have your own bank accounts setup.
* Get as much of your/kids stuff out of the house.
* Have an apartment setup.
* See a really good D attorney (preferable one that also does Family Law).
His behavior is making an impact on your kids.
Good Luck...
stunned08
I was pretty afraid to actually tell my DH that I wanted a divorce.
thank you, love that quote!
I don't want to sound nieve, but I really don't think I need to do the whole hiding things, getting apt and bank accounts. I have been the basic breadwinner for years now, he works, but doesn't make much. I do all the banking, all the bills, everything.... He doesn't even remember passwords for anything to have access. I do have a savings acct he doesn't know about (not much in it...) but I could transfer some $ into it, in case he does use his ck card
Shannon
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