How do I tell him I am done?
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How do I tell him I am done?
| Wed, 07-02-2008 - 7:01pm |
We have been married (tomorrow) for 13 yrs, have 2 kids, 9 and 11. I am not willing to 'try' anymore. I am just done. He isn't a bad person, but does have some anger issues. The last discussion we had about separating/divorce was because he found a piece of paper I had written a name of book I was going to read about divorce..didn't go over well..he FLIPPED out, broke a bunch of things, then laid on his garage floor and cried.

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well, I did it..I talked to him about separating. Went better than I thought, no big blow up. He cried and said to give him a chance to try to change things. I guess I am only 'kinda' doing that. He will no doubt screw up and then I can at least say I gave him this one last chance.
As for the house, I guess maybe we will put it up and try the short sell route. IDK. If we let it foreclose then have to file BK, our credit is DONE. I do have a friend that has a friend that has a trailer for sale that they said we could live in (kids and I) and just make payment. I can't believe I am even considering it, going from a middle class to trailer, but it's really not in that bad of an area, and I am fine with it really. just worked SO hard to get where I am now. SUCKS, and for what? ME to be happy? Is it all worth it? I just don't know anymore.
Good for you! I hate the thought of giving up my beautiful house too, there are townhomes near by that I am hoping I can get into. I just dont want to uproot my girls from our town. I keep thinking to myself though, I can have all this again and maybe next time it will be with someone who appreciates and respects me! I think and am hoping I will feel the same way that it wont matter where we live as long as we are on our own and all those bad feelings, walking on eggshells, and ugliness is for the most part gone! Keep your chin up!!!! I am meeting with a lawyer next week and hopefully she will be able to give me some good solid advice.
Shannon
Shannon
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