How do you start?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
How do you start?
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Sat, 02-23-2008 - 11:07am

H and I are heading towards separation.

iVillage Member
Registered: 10-25-2006
Sat, 02-23-2008 - 12:52pm

Sun,


If you have not already done so, start with an appointment with a marriage counselor. Very often, if you have the opportunity to discuss your differences with a professional counselor, you two may see ways to heal your marriage and repair it. If he won't go with you, go yourself.


Best wishes,


CL-Wisdomtooth2020

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Sat, 02-23-2008 - 5:40pm

Problem is, I don't want to heal the marriage anymore.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Sun, 02-24-2008 - 7:12pm

Hi there!


Your first step should be to consult with an attorney to find out what your rights and responsibilities are.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-22-2007
Sun, 02-24-2008 - 9:00pm

Thanks.

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 8:17am

Talking with an attorney will help to take away some of the emotions because you'll know "facts" and won't have to be worried about assumptions/threats/hearsay/etc.... and that makes dealing with the rest of the emotions much easier/less overwhelming.


Good luck!


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~