How do you throw the bum out?

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Registered: 04-30-2007
How do you throw the bum out?
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Fri, 06-06-2008 - 10:42am

I dont want to get him arrested. I just want to THROW him out.


If the apartment was gotten under my credit, couldnt I throw him out? {his name is on the lease too}


I would have to hide my car.


I told him I want to throw him out during argument, I am dealing with abuse issues too, but it came out. he said then, "I am not going anywhere"


Everything in this apt is mine, except for some crappy music equipment and books. Even the bookshelves came from my family.


Would cops make him leave without arresting him?


{we have been married 11 years}




Edited 6/6/2008 10:43 am ET by bugmenot
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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 06-06-2008 - 10:57am
You probably can't make him leave just because you want him out, unless there is abuse going on and you get a restraining order where he has to stay away from you.
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Registered: 04-30-2007
Fri, 06-06-2008 - 12:57pm

There has been abuse, except what is more low level everything but punching me, but definitely intimidation and

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Registered: 11-28-1999
Fri, 06-06-2008 - 1:34pm

If you are really poor, check w/ your local bar assoc. & see if you qualify for a free laywer.