How dumb am I... Lets count the ways

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Registered: 05-05-2005
How dumb am I... Lets count the ways
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Sun, 02-24-2008 - 11:53pm
YES I am a idiot..... So on Sat. X comes over to get ds's breathing machine at 11pm. He wants to talk. 1. I let him. The on Sun. he brings the kids home and wants to talk 2. I let him. 3. we have sex. On Monday he is taken to the ER for being suicidal. That night he wants to talk. 4. I let him 5 we have sex. Tuesday 6. we have sex. Wednesday. he calls 7 I answer.

 

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Registered: 03-19-2003
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 8:25am

Hey Jennifer,


Don't be so hard on yourself... you are working through your own emotions... and you are acknowledging the realizations along your journey..... and that's a GOOD thing!


So you gave him a little bit more rope and a few more chances.... and it VAILDATED what you thought you already knew... and as you continue to walk forward, you'll do it KNOWING that you didn't do anything in haste or for the wrong reasons.


It's OK.... pick up and move forward with your new knowledge.


Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~

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Registered: 01-12-2003
Mon, 02-25-2008 - 10:48am

You are struggling because divorce is HARD. You have had a tight connection to this other person for a long time and that can be hard to cut. My xh also cheated on me and I will tell you that I did the craziest stuff to get him back- I didn't even recognize myself.