How to get a divorce? Help!
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How to get a divorce? Help!
| Mon, 07-28-2008 - 9:28pm |
I am in what feels like a dead marriage and need out. We have been together for 7 years. I am totally overwhelmed. The first issue is that my husband is always hurting my feelings. I try to stand up for myself and tell him that the things he says are hurtful. His response is always the same " don't take things so personal". They are my feelings so they ARE personal and I am his wife. He has started to say or do hurtful things around other people. Then I am always asked why I put up with that.
The second issue, is that I am not in love with him any more. I look at him and feel no attraction. We are intimate a few times a year.
Lastly, I want to have children but not with him.

Bold,
First of all, you need a plan. Physically leaving is possible any time, but you need to think through what it is you are seeking. To that end, I suggest you seek personal
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
Hey.... cl-wisdomtooth gave you some great advice!
Ya know.... every time he says "don't take things so personal"..... he is seriously dismissing YOUR feelings, and in a MARRIAGE... where you are supposed to care about each other's feelings.... that's just a lame cop out.
I mean, if he said it once and it was more teasingly.... OK... but when you are seriously talking about *the* relationship... that's just low down and uninvested... in my opinion.
Hang in there!
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~