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How to move on?
| Mon, 07-14-2008 - 9:42am |
So as of Saturday my husband left after 7 years and two kids.
| Mon, 07-14-2008 - 9:42am |
So as of Saturday my husband left after 7 years and two kids.
Hi - Im trying to figure it out to....my X has been horrible but I still seem to want him. Ur situation is different than mine but the fact of the matter is that these men do not see the value in us...we shouldnt come in 2nd...not at all!!
One day Im strong...living alone w/ my 4yr old son and the next Im calling him begging him back. Mind u Im the one that told him to leave. But Im lonely and miss him so much...I get anxiety being alone in the house w/ out son. I miss him so much but when I talk to him theres always a bad taste in my mouth. U see he is abusive and refuses to get help so in our talks he still malipulates me and I wind up getting weak saying yea find its all my fault - those times uve put me and down and hurt me but then out of nowhere I get strong. If ur stbx cannot see ur worth and value then its his lost. Its not going to be easy by no means and you will second guess urself a million times but thats ok. We shouldnt beg for them back. Theres always that great trick of showing them that we're ok...when u talk sound lke ur busy and have to go..sound like you're doing OK...eventually you will be and he'll hear it in ur voice. It will either get him scared enough to se ong she's moving on that quick w/out me well then wait. Maybe then unfortuantely that way but he can see ur worth and by then u might have already moved on...and if it does nothing than again - his lost!!! It wil take time to heal but u'll do it