How nervous should I be??

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How nervous should I be??
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Fri, 12-09-2005 - 9:53am

My ex makes more money than I do. Not a ton of money, but even after what he pays me in child support he should have MORE money than what I make in a month at my job.

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Fri, 12-09-2005 - 8:26pm

hey there! You know, I *totally* understand where you're concerned, but I think as long as his mom is there, it should be OK. I would confirm that he is staying with his mom though. Make sure the kids know that they should call right away if they feel something isn't right.


I had the same concerns about my ex a while back. No money, he's always tired, looked and sounded like caca. my mind swirled to is he doing drugs? he's always smoked pot, but that's it. I thought he was drinking-that's what it looked like-and maybe other drugs. Turns out he was working alot of hours, was tired. No money because he's not responsible.


Maybe your ex is overspending because he has really no responsibilities now. Hes' not realizing how much he spends until its too late. Or he could be doing other things. Again, if his mom will be there-and you trust her-I think

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Sat, 12-10-2005 - 8:34pm

My father was a drug addict, and he lived with his parents.

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Sat, 12-10-2005 - 10:59pm
No, i dont think you are over-reacting given his history. But, i dont think there is really any way to prove it either. & thank GOD his parents are there. That is SO lucky. You know your kids will be safe. I wish i had more advice. (((hugs))) R~
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Sun, 12-11-2005 - 12:46am

Happy Birthday Joshua!!!... I've been thinking about you, Deb.


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Sun, 12-11-2005 - 12:48am

Hi Melanie.


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