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| Wed, 03-14-2007 - 10:03pm |
I met this guy who was cute, funny, and someone I would really like to get to know better.
I found out though that he's getting a divorce (will be finalized on April 2) and I backed off somewhat because of that even though we were on the verge of being intimate with each other. I'm not looking for something serious now (more of companionship) and he said he isn't either because he's just getting out of a long marriage (completely understandable), but I felt uncomfortable having sex because he's still technically married.
I would consider us good friends now, but lately, it seems that he's completely throwing himself into work putting in 17-18 hour days and I barely get to see or talk to him anymore. I'm sure it's his way of dealing with the upcoming courtdate, and I want to be there more for him but don't know what I can do without risking him pushing me away.
Can anyone give me some suggestions? Ordinarily I'd invite a friend who's down to drinks or a movie, but would he take that the wrong way as me trying to get a date and being pushy? Can I ask him about his situation, his wife/ex-wife to get him to talk about it?
Thanks!

Hey,
I just responded to your post here:
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~