how often do you talk to your stbx

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Registered: 02-23-2006
how often do you talk to your stbx
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Tue, 06-26-2007 - 12:01pm

mine calls me daily. but get this:

he calls me at 8 pm on a saturday night, or 11 pm on a friday night.

do you think he is checking up on me or what? why do men do this? what part of we are getting a divorce and i now have a life without you doesn't he understand?

he called me again last night at 10:40 pm. i didn't answer the phone. i am freaking tired. i get up before 6 am, get my son off to summer school, walk the dogs, go to work, come home, get dinner, tend to everyones needs but mine and he calls me drunk at 10:40 and wants to talk? WTF???

when we were married and i wanted to talk, he was either in TV land or drunk, or sleeping on the couch. we never had conversations, at least for the last 5 years of our marriage.

i want to tell him to stop, but he is rather abusive verbally and quite honestly, i don't have the energy anymore.

any suggestions on how to get this to stop? oh and btw: if i tell him not to call me, he will tell the kids how mean i am to him. :-/

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Edited 6/26/2007 12:03 pm ET by whatabadidea
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Registered: 02-23-2006
Sun, 07-01-2007 - 8:15pm

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hes alread in contempt. i will call my lawyer tomorrow.

i am so sick of his verbal bs abuse.

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