How will you spend the day?
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How will you spend the day?
| Sun, 01-22-2006 - 11:21am |
For those of you whose divorces are not yet final, do you plan on doing anything special when that day comes? Or, if you are already divorced, did you do something on the day of your divorce? I'm just wondering because I haven't decided yet if I fee like celebrating, or if I just feel like doing some quiet reflection on my own. It's a hard call.

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I think that it is a combination - there is some quiet reflecting and there is celebration.
I was with a friend in court, she had to go back to work - i couldn't go home,
Honestly, I don't remember!... Court was that morning, and I know that I went to work afterwards (after I declined my EX's invitation to have lunch together after court---OK, I can do that now, but not that day--he was a sobbing mess).
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
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Karen ~ wildlucky4me
Karen ~ wildlucky4me ~
Rebecca...
Italy sounds awesome... what great friends you have... I can't wait to hear more about your trip and all the cool places you will have explored!
*hugs*
Julie
It is a hard call... I know that I didn't know how I would actually feel when I heard the judge advise that our marriage had been legally dissolved... turns out, when the day came, I felt incredible... xh on the other hand advised that he was a lot sadder than he anticipated, even asking ~me~ for a hug afterwards... what the h-e-double hockey sticks?
Anyway, since I really wasn't sure how I would feel, I decided to spend the day with my college roommate, her dh and son... they would understand if I was in the dumps and be able to be supportive, or they would be there to celebrate with me... we had a great day... had lunch together, went shopping... it was great catching up and seeing an old friend!
*hugs*
Julie
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