How will you spend the day?

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Registered: 07-08-2004
How will you spend the day?
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Sun, 01-22-2006 - 11:21am
For those of you whose divorces are not yet final, do you plan on doing anything special when that day comes? Or, if you are already divorced, did you do something on the day of your divorce? I'm just wondering because I haven't decided yet if I fee like celebrating, or if I just feel like doing some quiet reflection on my own. It's a hard call.

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Registered: 03-25-2003
Tue, 01-24-2006 - 6:40pm

Well, 2006 made for years that I have been trying to get to court to finalize on paper what has already taken place in my heart.

Peace,

Di

***If you cannot define yourself, your circumstances will.***

 

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Registered: 01-22-2006
Fri, 01-27-2006 - 10:44pm

I don't think that my divorce will be final but I plan on being separated before my next birthday. My good friend who has the same birthday are planning on going on a short cruise.

Taylor

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Registered: 01-12-2006
Sat, 01-28-2006 - 7:03pm
I did file on Dec. 28, 2005 and he should be getting served with the temp. orders mid February. The divorce should be final by the end of April. I have thought about it as well with how I will 'spend' the day. I don't know yet. For me, I guess I will just wait and see how I am feeling that day. I could be unbelievably depressed, or over the top happy. I just don't know. I suffer from depression anyway, and suspect that I will want a quiet day. Who knows though. I just may throw a party.... I'll let you know when the time comes. Pam
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Registered: 07-08-2004
Sun, 01-29-2006 - 8:40am
That's a good point, Pam. I think it's hard to know exactly how one is going to feel on that day. I think I'll leave my plans open and see how I feel. But boy, I'd sure love to get a pedicure...lol!
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Registered: 01-29-2006
Sun, 01-29-2006 - 12:15pm
congratualions on your finalized papers but your continued relationship sounds ominous. Is the "recovery" part as difficult as the process?

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