HUGE UPDATE ON PREGNANCY

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Registered: 06-11-2004
HUGE UPDATE ON PREGNANCY
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Mon, 08-07-2006 - 9:37am

First thanks to all of you for your support and not biting my head off. Over the weekend I had a miscarriage. Actually I think Im probaby still in the end stages of it. I think this pain is worse than labor if that's at all possible. It's weird because it's bitter-sweet as it was when I first found out I was pregnant. I am sort of relieved and I hope that doesnt sound bad of me. One thing for sure is I wont go down that road again of getting involved with someone who "is trying to leave", so dumb of me. I think everything does happen for a reason and I was really torn about this situation, having the baby or not, I was so torn because I realized this guy was no different than my ex and I wanted NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM EVER. Having this baby would have tied me to him forever and what do you know, I have a miscarriage. Im sad for the baby, they are innocent ya know but relieved that now I can walk away from this guy totally. Dont you know he is already seeing someone else, mind you he still hasnt moved out yet. What garbage, I thought no one could be worse than ex or they are at least pretty equal. I cant believe I fell for all his promises, it all sounded soooo good. I havent told him yet, once I do Im gonna also tell him dont ever call me again.

I more thing Ive learned about myself and being strong. I think this is all to prepare for "the one" and to also spot the fakes from a mile away.

Thanks again ladies.

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Registered: 05-07-2003
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 10:42am
{{{{ hugs }}}} to you.
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Registered: 04-02-2003
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 1:20pm

hugs honey.... i think its normal that you will be feeling relieved, mixed up with sadness. it is sad - this is a baby, and even tho it was just a teeny speck, it was your baby... this is sad.

I hope you will take the time you need to recuperate and get well - physically and emotionally.

hugs...

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Registered: 03-11-2004
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 1:37pm
Be sure to take care of you! Hugs, Brenda

Hugs, Brenda 

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Mon, 08-07-2006 - 10:00pm

I'm sorry for your loss... I hope that your healing, both physical and emotional, go well and bring you peace.

*hugs*

Julie

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Registered: 07-08-2004
Tue, 08-08-2006 - 7:31am
Hugs, luv. I know this is difficult for you either way. One day, you will have that second child you've dreamed of.....but with a caring, loving partner. Take care of yourself, and make sure you check in with your dr. again very soon to make sure you're healing well.