Hurt Again

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Registered: 09-25-2007
Hurt Again
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Tue, 09-25-2007 - 1:04pm
I have been married to my husband for 9 1/2 yrs, we have 3 children (18yrs, 16yrs and 5yrs, he had the two oldest and we had one together. Last year Jan. 2006 I discovered a womans phone number in his cell phone and also that he has been texting her, he said that she was a friend he was talking to nothing more and that he would stop talking/texting her, well I found out again in April and July of 2006, that he was still talking/texting her, he promised yet again to stop. Last christmas we were having problems in our marriage, some other trust issues came up with another person and we sought counseling from older relatives and a therapist. February of this year we were back
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Registered: 12-18-2006
In reply to: diva4life2007
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 2:01pm

You deserve more......... I could not knowingly share my husband, too much at risk these days.

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Registered: 09-25-2007
In reply to: diva4life2007
Tue, 09-25-2007 - 2:34pm
You are right, and its just so hard, especially when you thought you married for life. I am very strong and I will press on and raise my daughter to be a strong woman as well!!
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Registered: 07-07-2007
In reply to: diva4life2007
Wed, 09-26-2007 - 9:56am

You do deserve so much better. And if you can't see this for yourself, look at it through your children. Would you tell your kids to stay with someone like your husband, or would you know they are worthy of a much better life?

I wish you strength and comfort in this difficult time.