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| Tue, 08-22-2006 - 1:32am |
so here's my story:
exactly 1 month ago today on July 21, 2006 my hubbie came home and told me he met a woman on July 14th, 2006 who he believes would make him happier and he can love more than he loves me and needed to find out --- I kicked him out of our home. He has indicated that because I kicked him out he was forced to move in with her.....they moved in together on August 01, 2006.
We were together for 10 years and married 6 of those years. We had it all - a picture perfect couple who everyone is surprised would end up divorced. Yes we did have our problems but all couples do. He just tuned 38 last week and I'm 31. We're both successful and independent. What I don't understand is why he would decide that one day he is no longer happy and move in with a woman he's know 2 weeks at the time - he says that he is in-love with her. In addition, she is in her early 20's, quit her job as a waitress and is now going back to school which my ex is paying for. He also pays for the condo they rent and everything else 'cause he says she has no money.......recently he called me to advise that he needs his divorce settlement asap as he does not have any money....the other woman is the complete opposite of me -- I graduted with 2 degrees, have my own business and we shared a beautiful home....most people would agree when I say that we were the perfect couple so I guess my question to all of yous out there is how does a man wake up one day, goes out and meets a woman, and gives up his entire life and friends to be with her...how can he walk away from 10 years of memories for someone that he knew for 1 week? Hes never indicated that he was unhappy and gave me no reason to believe that......so everyone out there please help me figue out what to say to my heart in order to get past this.........thank you so much ! R
PS I still love him but he has refused counselling

You sound like a strong woman who has accomplished much in life. You will get through this.
Hugs,
Kelly
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