Husband blames me...

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Registered: 07-03-2003
Husband blames me...
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Tue, 04-22-2008 - 11:14am

My husband and I have been separated since April 6. We have a 7mth old daughter, when he would come to see her she would say daddy and put up her arms for him she would just be so happy that he was here. But instead of coming everyday to see her, he was coming once every two days, and then didn't see her from thursday until yesterday, and when my daughter saw him she didn't really care much that he was here, she didn't say daddy she was just mostly pulling away from him to come back to me, and since the separation she finally began saying mama and no longer says daddy even though i still talk to her about him.


He left really upset and mad at me, telling

 

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Registered: 10-25-2006
Tue, 04-22-2008 - 11:38am

Roxanne,


Get in touch with your caseworker and explain what's going on. It is your husband's responsibility to attend the anger management classes; unless he's under court order to do, then he could be served with contempt for failing to show. But let that state authorities deal with that. It's not your responsibility to make him go.


As for his threats of "keeping" your child. Your husband is an idiot.

CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Tue, 04-22-2008 - 12:50pm

Also just to add to the very good advice from CL Wisdomtooth, of COURSE HE BLAMES YOU!