I am filing for divorce right after christmas ....not in a happy place right now
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|Wed, 12-14-2011 - 8:15pm|
Hello all....I am a 35 yr old mom of 4...been married my entire adult life. Unfortunately, I am married to what I suppose is a serial cheater. I discovered the *first* affair that I know of right after my pregnancy with our youngest child (20 months old now) . I was devastated and gutted when I found out. I should have left then. He cried, said it wouldnt happen again, etc. Things turned bad after this...once I found out about his tendency for a double-life, he started becoming aggressive and nasty...I dont want to go into details there, but you get the point I am sure. Sure enough last spring he started another *friendship* with yet another young woman. I discovered by accident he is planning a trip with her across the country for about a week for a school they both attend. Apparently in August he told her he was getting a divorce. News to me! In fact he WONT file...he tells me things can be fixed if I change. LOL!!!! Needless to say, the trip planning was the final straw. He is practically dating her, they go out drinking, etc. under the guise of 'socializing for school'. I have had it.
Yet even though I think he is a creep, I still feel pretty horrible about it all. I dont want