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I am regretting it.
| Wed, 04-02-2008 - 4:57am |
I walked out on my husband back in september. He was abusive physically, emotionally, and verbally. I met a guy I really liked online around may, and finally got to meet him in august. He was everything I could ask for in a man...he has never been with anyone sexually but me, and

Luv,
Yes, your daughter needs her father.
No, she doesn't need a father who BEATS HER MOTHER!
You did the right thing by leaving the abusive situation you were in. There was no alternative except your injury and possible death, and eventually the injury and death of your daugther. You see abuser aren't content to just hit you after a while, they will KILL you to keep you from leaving.
Your STBX is doing what abusers do best: laying on the guilt trip by promising to make it "all better" if you just come home to him. (And oh
CL-Wisdomtooth2020
Yes, divorce is hard, but despite the fact that maybe you had some good times w/ your STBX, you have to remember that he was physically and emotionally abusive to you, not to mention that he drank.