I am so confussed!!!!!

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Registered: 03-08-2004
I am so confussed!!!!!
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Wed, 06-29-2005 - 12:55pm
I am so confussed right now I am not sure what to make of this. Maybe you guys can help me with this. I went to my first counceling appointment yesterday and it went really good. When DH got home that night
wildthing siggy
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Registered: 12-11-2003
Wed, 06-29-2005 - 2:21pm

Seems like both of you really want your marriage to work out. I really think if both people are willing to give 110% then it will work out. Myself i don't think there is a problem that can't be fixed.

Good luck

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Registered: 06-14-2004
Wed, 06-29-2005 - 2:26pm

Hugs to you, Sue. I recognize your SN, but I'm not recalling your exact circumstances, so just a few general thoughts. I'm glad you had a good feeling about the counselling appointment, but I would question the odds the counsellor quoted you. Those odds are a pretty broad generalization - being married a certain length of time isn't a guarantee that the relationship will be salvaged. If you and your husband are both willing to put 100% effort into working things out, it is quite possible you will be able to do so. But he needs to be willing to put the effort in too - you can't save the marriage by yourself. I hope he does decide to attend your next counselling appointment with you, and wish you the best.

-sang