I am so mad

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Registered: 12-21-2004
I am so mad
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Wed, 12-06-2006 - 5:18pm
I am so ticked off today...I have got to get over my husband - and just go on with my life - honestly - I can't take much more...even though I CLAIM that I'm not going to call that pre-paid phone of his - I keep doing it...and nobody ever answers it. Anyway this morning on the way to work about 7:15 a.m. - I called and he answered. I said hey, he said hey, I said where are you - he said Mississippi - I said now you remember that you don't have a license to drive in the state of Louisiana don't you? He mumbled something. I told him that I had a certified letter for him and another important letter...he kept asking what it was...I told him that they were going to suspend his license - he wanted to know when - I didn't tell him - I told him I had a certified letter about his stuff that was in his re-po'd truck - he wanted to know what it said - I told him to call me later - he knows the number to work - I said she is with you isn't she - he never would answer me - and finally I said "why don't you stop at a truck stop and when she goes in - just leave" she isn't from Georgia anyway --- so anywhere would be closer to her home... I told him that he had two children that he hadn't seen nor talked to and that he needed to ditch that woman and come home to his kids. He said yeah....I know she was sitting there. It just makes me so mad to think that he had all day to call me and never once did - he could care less what any of the letters say he has always been that way. I got the number where he works - it is here in town and I started to call and see if they would get him a message - but then I said to h#@# with it. I have got to quit worrying about HIS problems - he da@# sure isn't worried about ours. I got so mad at wal-mart a few minutes ago that I picked the phone up and called and blessed him out on that answering machine and if she gets the message more power to her---I said I have told your two children that they aren't getting anything for Christmas thanks to him..I then told him he had better think that his 17 year old daughter would be 22 in 5 years and that she may just decide to move in with a married 45 year old truck driver. I'm sure that will tick her off - but I don't care...she is RUINING MY LIFE. We had enough problems without her. Then to top all of this off - I was talking to a man a few minutes ago....I had stopped to get my mail - and he said "Tony better get on home before someone else starts taking care of his "homework"" - he didn't have to say anything else I knew what he meant. So before I signed on to this website I sent an e-mail to my husband telling him what someone else just said. I bet the idea of me being with someone else will get to him....I guess if she lets him see the phone with the e-mail on it. I'm afraid I"m going to have a nervous breakdown.

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Registered: 12-21-2004
In reply to: gal_jasper
Thu, 12-07-2006 - 7:26pm
Hey Robin! Glad to see you posing...you know my husband and yours ought to be riding together...heck mine isn't even going to have a license after the 27th - and I tried to tell him that yesterday morning on the phone - when he finally anwered it again - I think he just got minutes added to it - I can guarantee you that she is burning those minutes as fast as he can put them on there because like I said before the Truck Driver in the next town offered for me to come to his house last month and look at his cell and the things she had been txting to other women & all...so she is probably having the time of her life now that she has access to a cell...I knew the minute I hit send on the e-mail telling my husband about a comment someone made to me yesterday...and she came back immediately with an e-mail that said "yeah, so..I'm busy, call tomorrow or sometimes." That sounds like something a 5th grader would say..I don't think my husband has ever said the word yeah and much less yeah, so...anyway that was what it took to piss me off enough to delete the number from my cell and delete e-mail messages off my computer before they are ever downloaded. So if he wants to talk to me it will either be in person here at my house or he can call work. Those are his only choices...and I was going to read him the letter about where he could pick up his stuff out of his truck that was re-po'd...but he didn't care enough to call back yesterday while I was working...so I don't care what they do with it. You know in the 7 years that he has that little Nissan - I don't think that I was ever in it even once. So there was definitely nothing of mine in it. I agree with you about why he would want someone else to feed - when he says all he has had to eat is peanut butter and jelly...but she won't be with him for long if she got mad because they re-po'd the truck because if he loses his license on the 27th- she will be stuck in that unfunished trailer in a rural town in Georgia with no way of going anywhere - not even to the store to buy a tampon...honestly..I'm so glad to see you post..I took some of these people's advice and went over to that other board about co-love addicts or something -- anyway the 1st post I read..was one from a 21 year old dating a married man.....so I just typed her a letter from the WIFES perspective. I'm so glad you are on here! Keep posting - it keeps me smiling!
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Registered: 12-21-2004
In reply to: gal_jasper
Fri, 12-08-2006 - 5:08pm

Hey Robin, it seems like me and you are the only two that seem to be in the same boat..with a husband driving a truck and going with a 20 something...anyway..you know I told you I had blocked my e-mail from receiving e-mails from that woman..anyway somehow one got through today at work...Listen to this its from my husband:
Sorry I haven't called you things got crazy with psycho girl but they are done now because I threw her and herthings out in t/s parking lot. I just hope I haven't waited too long to right the wrong I did to you and our children. I LOVE AND MISS YA'LL and really am sorry for being so stupid.

I just couldn't believe that I got the e-mail today....it is SO HARD to find anyone to talk to...honestly some of the board are so judgmental and some haven't walked in the same shoes...but I did want to let you know what was going on.....

Thanks for listening!

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Registered: 07-09-2006
In reply to: gal_jasper
Fri, 12-08-2006 - 10:07pm

I think you may be more comfortable on the Betrayed Spouses board. It definitely deals with what you're going through and I've found the women to be very supportive.


Hugs.

 

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