I cant beleive i ever married him!
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| Sat, 05-07-2005 - 1:36pm |
We havent spoken since Aves visit Thurs except for me offering her to go with him for a couple of hours today, b4 i go to work at 3pm. He said he woudl see what his work schedule was. I drove by his house today at 10am (not on purpose, it was on the route i had to go) & his car was in the driveway - so he did NOT work. Now he just called, at 1pm.
He said "I dont know what to do, she was obviously uncomfortable & didnt want to be here the other day - i dont know what i should do". & i felt badly at that moment (changed fast!) b/c i thought maybe he was realizing that he has to do something for her - for him - for their relationship. So i just said, NICELY, "well Mike, you know, you have to look at it from her 5 yr old point of view, that last visit was tough on her & she was nervous


You know, R~...Mike is hanging himself. His demands and accusations only make him look bad. I know that my X is accusing me of parental alienation...he will never accept the fact that he has done all of this on his own and neither will Mike. It's easier for them to point the finger at someone else...the abuser's mentality.
You are doing everything that you need to do to make visitations possible and he has to get nasty about it. And to say that he is NOT going to discuss this with the GAL will make him look even worse. Don't you worry! Your GAL already has a good idea of how bad your STBX is...he has shown her his true self.
When the GAL in my case faxed the court order over to my atty., the fax cover sheet said: ****, (atty's. first name), sometimes you just need to give them enough rope and they will hang themselves. I just laughed and laughed. He really blew it this time. I don't think the judge is playing anymore!
I know that your GAL will do exactly what's best for Avery and it isn't Mike right now! Hang in there...I am confident that you will do well in this report and in court!
I will be thinking of you on Monday! Post and let us know how it went!
Melanie