I can't believe the nerve of this guy!!

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Registered: 10-16-2007
I can't believe the nerve of this guy!!
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Thu, 11-22-2007 - 3:02am

He must really think I am a idiot.

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Registered: 10-25-2006
Thu, 11-22-2007 - 10:46am

Wanna,


Stop being an enabler to your STBX. It's like being a parent who never lets their kids fall down and skin their knees or take the consequences of getting into trouble.


Time to let him figure a few things out for himself. And that means you need to turn a deaf ear to ALL his requests for help.


He wanted out. So let him swim!


CL-Wisdomtooth2020

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Registered: 03-15-2004
Thu, 11-22-2007 - 9:24pm

I did it for a LONG time. Thinking if i helped him, he would get on his feet. AND realize he could have decent co-parenting relatioship with me & woudl be nice.


Well ........ THAT backfired.

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Registered: 10-16-2007
Sat, 11-24-2007 - 2:31am
Thank you both for the comments, CL wisedomtooth your right ... Being a enabler is exactly what I am doing.. He called me last nite and asked me to post his resume and I told him I woudn't do it.

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Registered: 05-12-2007
Sat, 11-24-2007 - 8:04am

Sorry to hear that the holiday has been rough for you.

 


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